Grass is always greener on the other side :D

I heard many rantings about how pathetic being single is especially when Valentines Day is around the corner. My friend Jack just told me,"Haih.. another one year and yet tomorrow will be another dateless year". Of course, when you are not attached sometimes you get jealous when looking at lovely couples with their lovey-dovey activities and feel pathetic when your other friends out there celebrating with your partner. Yeah, human always think that the grass on the other side is always greener but the fact is being single is all great in many sense.

The best part about being single is the freedom of unattachment and uncommitment, especially when you are the type who enjoys flirting around and playing with emotions. There's nothing that tied you up. Just like myself who enjoys flirting, I enjoys dating people out or flirt around but now I'm not as aggresive as before since I'm emotionally attached and I don't have the single's soul I used to have before. Before the affection between the one you flirt get a little more intimate you would stop yourself from proceeding, having some guilt of betraying your own partner thus cutting off all possibilities of the fun outcomes that yet to happen. Last time I had the aggresiveness to flirt with some strangers just for the sake of trying to impress her and to make her interested on me, when I'm not onto her at all.

So, in other words you can be a true player if you are single. Those attached players are morrons and it's a total different playing rules. Of course being attached you could enjoy the warmth and caring from your partner but singles out there could always deal with new excitements and a wholesome rommance as well as flirting activities. And this is the reason most couples break up, because they are thirst of such excitements.

In order to make singles who are NOT A PLAYER to feel less pathetic looking at those lovey-dovey couples, Singles Day is declared on the 14th February as well just to acknowledge all single status individuals that they are not neglected. Single or Attached are just a status that has almost similar reflection, just like your left hand and your right hand. Don't worry if you're not attached.. there's Singles Day. Singles Day steamboat event will be held on the 14th and me being semi-single will be joining the fun with all my friends since I'm dateless too.

Happy Singles Day !
and also Happy V-Day for those who're really commited... damn I'm missing her ALOT !